When we were getting married, I was SO worried that everything HAD to be PERFECT. The food, the flowers, the band, the ceiling (we covered it with tulle), if he guests were having a good time, etc...
I spent so much time worrying about what could go wrong (aside from the fact that my husband badly twisted his ankle the night before the wedding and was on pain meds during the wedding) that I didn't really get to FULLY ENJOY my wedding.
These people REALLY have the right idea. To them, the wedding was a huge party that was all about pleasing themselves.
All of us can learn something from them:
This is the video that's sweeping the nation:
Slow Cooker Shredded Chicken
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